Ages 2–3: "I do it myself!"
Toddlers want to help; the goal is participation, not results.
- Put toys and books back in their spots
- Put dirty clothes in the hamper
- Help feed a pet (with supervision)
- Wipe up small spills with a cloth
Ages 4–5: routines begin
- Make their bed (imperfectly — that's fine)
- Set and clear their own place at the table
- Water plants, match socks from the laundry
- Tidy their room with a short, specific list
Ages 6–9: real contributors
- Make the bed daily and change pillowcases
- Dust nightstands and shelves, tidy up shelves
- Empty small trash bins, sort recycling
- Help with dishes, feed pets independently
- Sweep floors and wipe down dressers
Ages 10–13: independent operators
- Vacuum the floor and mop
- Load, run, and empty the dishwasher without help
- Do their own laundry with guidance
- Clean the bathroom sink and polish mirrors
- Prepare simple meals and pack their own lunch
Ages 14–18: household-level skills
- Deep-clean the bath and kitchen
- Full laundry cycles, including sheets and towels
- Cook family meals once a week
- Yard work, taking bins out, minor household maintenance
- Run their own weekly room reset without prompting
The consistency rule: experts agree the benefit of chores comes from doing them regularly, not occasionally. A predictable schedule with reminders beats a perfect list done twice.
Assigning age-appropriate chores in Popi
- Give each child a profile — even the four-year-old, who will be extremely proud of their avatar.
- Set complexity to match age. A toddler's toy pickup might be complexity 1; a teen's bathroom deep-clean a 9. Points stay fair across wildly different abilities.
- Schedule tasks at the right rhythm — daily beds, weekly dusting — so routines actually form.
- Let reminders build the habit. Each child gets their own notifications; you're coaching, not policing.
- Grow the list with the child. Raise complexity and add tasks each birthday — the chart matures with them.
The right chores, at the right age, on autopilot
Popi is free to download on iPhone and iPad.